Hi everyone, today we will be talking about motivation and successful life. Do you get motivated by external factors, or do you get motivated by inner factors? What I can do is have inner motivation, such as wanting to be better in some ways in your life, like being someone who is trying to find the inner depth at a young age, like getting an A in school. Maybe you love to compete, and you love the subject as it interests you. However, some people try their best in university to get more money, as they can pick a high-demand degree in the work field. However, these are two examples of inner motivation factors and external factors in the same sector of why we study. However, did you search in your life about how your motivating stars develop, and most importantly, how you can cope with the unmotivated times when you start losing your passion sometimes?
I think we should discover our motivation, like wanting a degree, a job, or maybe to love someone. As such, it makes your parents proud of you, or you wish to be an example for your children. And reading books and gaining experiences in some fields makes you fall for your dream job. Also, we, can discover the inner peace. for me, inner peace was sitting in the garden with a friend. In the meantime we discover the motivation changes over a lifetime. For me, I like the countryside personality, and I try to abandon the curiosity of the city and the loud crowds there.
On the other hand, we find some obstacles in our journey or in our life, like when you separate from a husband or when you lose a family member by his passing to the afterlife.
In the meantime, you lost power, and your inner depth finds herself lost in the memories, and you think the small steps are getting harder.
Likewise, is your sense blocking itself to be unaware of daily life itself? How you could help yourself with therapy to make you remember the hidden motivation and maybe to look for books on grieving or breaking relationships that you need to build new bonds with everyday small steps and to go after lifetime expected goals.
As when you recover, the faster you get back to your motivation and the life that you want to succeed in. So my personal advice is that the person should discover their motivation power and the external factors that make them successful in every side of their life.
For, discovering the motivation and changing motivation should be upon many times of life, like falling in love or studying to make your parent proud of you. And to gain money for studying for a higher position. Also, obstacles come with ups and downs, and we should take breaks to breathe and grieve on our sad days. How about finding a supporting group and reading a book or even discovering new hobbies, new skills, or even finding new relationships like friendship or love that make you get out from your sad days?
